Love is something one cannot decide, it’s a fate, people experience love in different forms. Without love it’s impossible to live through life’s roller-coaster…we live when we love, when we learn to value our surroundings…otherwise we just survive.
Why do we like to pursue a particular subject or always want to be close to our siblings or parents or friends?
Because we LOVE them….no one dies loveless….it touches everyone at some point of time and make those moments cherished forever…it leads to nostalgia…
And according to me, those who say there is no love left in this material world-I totally oppose!! Sure we really are in need of love but we have forgotten to look for it in the right places…we demand too much and in turn, give less…..a thing cannot develop single sided, Laws of Equivalent Exchange is applicable for not just alchemy but everything….by the way love is also a kind of chemical reaction…
When we speak of love we always think of a boy and a girl running around a tree in typical tolly or bollywood films, it’s not always so…Sure that kind of love is regarded as its ultimatum (not running round a tree-mind it) but it’s not a salvation, it can be for some but regarding all the unhappy stats, one is left unsure. No one can love us as much as our parents, our creator.
Funny, when you think of it there are so many sides to this kind of theory. God knows how I got started on this brain racking subject but as I did I can’t rest till I justify it to my best.
People have forgotten how to love, how to keep love and how to share it and we nonetheless complain about it without giving a thought to our 0 efforts. People!! People, especially our generation does not read books, they are busy being glued to net or their ‘syllabus’ oriented works and plan-making to go abroad and leave their motherland for good when they are needed the most. Love also means love for their religion, their motherland-in one word- patriotism. We, Indians are the kin to one of world’s oldest civilization and we don’t even know it…we don’t even regard it. We are too busy being fascinated by western culture and muse why all that never happens here. Wanna know why??? Because there is a lot of people thinking about the same things and always refusing their chances when given a opportunity to make a change thinking it’s only a ‘wild dream that can never happen’ where as old crooks take this opportunity to do their unfair ‘dhanda’(business) and killing people who stands in their way. We are the world’s largest democratic country and we don’t know the value of it. We don’t give votes to those who can make a difference for the good but to THOSE who will keep us out of trouble when we break the law. We don’t even know the difference between the right and the wrong. We have one hell more of knowledge of other people’s history and culture than our own. This generation Indians don’t have an identity they are ‘na ghat ka, na nadi ka.’(neither of the river nor of its bank.) They don’t know their own culture neither the culture on which they are fascinated of. Who’s responsible for this? Only us! I admit I am from the same category which I speak with such distaste but I realize my errors and want to amend it. Because of our thoughtless actions India is not progressing, it’s in a condition of collapse-specially Kolkata. You may wonder what my conclusion is but frankly I am seeking it myself. It’s just some random musing that doesn’t even bother to vacant my thinking space nor yield a solution.
Constructive criticisms are always accepted with good will so don’t hesitate to speak your thoughts. A frolicking bee is better than the one in a bonnet.
Sunday, November 25, 2007
Friday, November 23, 2007
My Ideal Rules.....
23rd, November,2007
Have a firm handshake.
· Look people in the eye.
· Sing in the shower.
· Own a great stereo system.
· If in a fight, hit first and hit hard.
· Keep secrets.
· Never give up on anybody. Miracles happen everyday.
· Always accept an outstretched hand.
· Be brave. Even if you're not, pretend to be. No one can tell
the difference.
· Whistle.
· Avoid sarcastic remarks.
· Choose your life's mate carefully. From this one decision will
come 90 per cent of all your happiness or misery.
· Make it a habit to do nice things for people who will never
find out.
· Lend only those books you never care to see again.
· Never deprive someone of hope; it might be all that they have.
· When playing games with children, let them win.
· Give people a second chance, but not a third.
· Be romantic.
· Become the most positive and enthusiastic person you know.
· Loosen up. Relax. Except for rare life-and-death matters,
nothing is as important as it first seems.
· Don't allow the phone to interrupt important moments. It's
there for your convenience, not the caller's.
· Be a good loser.
· Be a good winner.
· Think twice before burdening a friend with a secret.
· When someone hugs you, let them be the first to let go.
· Be modest. A lot was accomplished before you were born.
· Keep it simple.
· Beware of the person who has nothing to lose.
· Don't burn bridges. You'll be surprised how many times you
have to cross the same river.
· Live your life so that your epitaph could read, No Regrets
· Be bold and courageous. When you look back on life, you'll
regret the things you didn't do more than the one's you did.
· Never waste an opportunity to tell someone you love them.
· Remember no one makes it alone. Have a grateful heart and be
quick to acknowledge those who helped you.
· Take charge of your attitude. Don't let someone else choose it
for you.
· Visit friends and relatives when they are in hospital; you
need only stay a few minutes.
· Begin each day with some of your favorite music.
· Once in a while, take the scenic route.
· Send a lot of Valentine cards. Sign them, 'Someone who thinks
you're terrific.'
· Answer the phone with enthusiasm and energy in your voice.
· Keep a note pad and pencil on your bed-side table.
Million-dollar ideas sometimes strike at 3 a.m.
· Show respect for everyone who works for a living, regardless
of how trivial their job.
· Send your loved ones flowers. Think of a reason later.
· Make someone's day by paying the toll for the person in the
car behind you.
· Become someone's hero.
· Marry only for love.
· Count your blessings.
· Compliment the meal when you're a guest in someone's home.
· Wave at the children on a school bus.
· Remember that 80 per cent of the success in any job is based
on your ability to deal with people.
· Don't expect life to be fair.
Each word sounds easy but do we really do it all?????
I look upon these words and say...'I'll obey all'...but i don't...
So many guilty feelings......so many questions....
Have a firm handshake.
· Look people in the eye.
· Sing in the shower.
· Own a great stereo system.
· If in a fight, hit first and hit hard.
· Keep secrets.
· Never give up on anybody. Miracles happen everyday.
· Always accept an outstretched hand.
· Be brave. Even if you're not, pretend to be. No one can tell
the difference.
· Whistle.
· Avoid sarcastic remarks.
· Choose your life's mate carefully. From this one decision will
come 90 per cent of all your happiness or misery.
· Make it a habit to do nice things for people who will never
find out.
· Lend only those books you never care to see again.
· Never deprive someone of hope; it might be all that they have.
· When playing games with children, let them win.
· Give people a second chance, but not a third.
· Be romantic.
· Become the most positive and enthusiastic person you know.
· Loosen up. Relax. Except for rare life-and-death matters,
nothing is as important as it first seems.
· Don't allow the phone to interrupt important moments. It's
there for your convenience, not the caller's.
· Be a good loser.
· Be a good winner.
· Think twice before burdening a friend with a secret.
· When someone hugs you, let them be the first to let go.
· Be modest. A lot was accomplished before you were born.
· Keep it simple.
· Beware of the person who has nothing to lose.
· Don't burn bridges. You'll be surprised how many times you
have to cross the same river.
· Live your life so that your epitaph could read, No Regrets
· Be bold and courageous. When you look back on life, you'll
regret the things you didn't do more than the one's you did.
· Never waste an opportunity to tell someone you love them.
· Remember no one makes it alone. Have a grateful heart and be
quick to acknowledge those who helped you.
· Take charge of your attitude. Don't let someone else choose it
for you.
· Visit friends and relatives when they are in hospital; you
need only stay a few minutes.
· Begin each day with some of your favorite music.
· Once in a while, take the scenic route.
· Send a lot of Valentine cards. Sign them, 'Someone who thinks
you're terrific.'
· Answer the phone with enthusiasm and energy in your voice.
· Keep a note pad and pencil on your bed-side table.
Million-dollar ideas sometimes strike at 3 a.m.
· Show respect for everyone who works for a living, regardless
of how trivial their job.
· Send your loved ones flowers. Think of a reason later.
· Make someone's day by paying the toll for the person in the
car behind you.
· Become someone's hero.
· Marry only for love.
· Count your blessings.
· Compliment the meal when you're a guest in someone's home.
· Wave at the children on a school bus.
· Remember that 80 per cent of the success in any job is based
on your ability to deal with people.
· Don't expect life to be fair.
Each word sounds easy but do we really do it all?????
I look upon these words and say...'I'll obey all'...but i don't...
So many guilty feelings......so many questions....
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